Pregnant Fathers (The most ignored emotion of the era)..

Hey guys ! Purnabramha is not only for mothers, we give hand to Fathers as well J  is not the message from this discussion.. But today will try to discuss the undisguised topic of Pregnant Fathers.. YES.. pregnant father , this is the topic which they can discuss and will not be able to take it control also.

Fathers: when they get know that they are going to be father, it is absolutely same feeling of as Mothers.. lekin AAi is Mahan in our Culture.. I must say Father is also Mahan..

Girls, I mist say the day they got to know that she is Pregnant they stay with their Plans.. and if not please get into that role from day 1 coz for this Project , u have 9 months delivery time so be prepared for the Post-delivery things.. so that Post-delivery u will not get any pain as such.. not emotional and not even financial.

Fathers, as by nature they are good planner, they might be getting in to tensions of

1.     The health and emotional mood swings of his Partner,

2.     Basic : Papering and environment creation of the world greatest experience.

3.     Need to maintained the office project deliveries and this also.. : No dear this should be the My delivery and project work at office.. so decide on the priority.

4.     Chking of the medicine and arranging for the food is not only responsibility of fathers.. but they should and will and would have been doing this.. as

5.     Please check whether she is taking her food on time, medicine on time, she should not get any extra emotional pain coz of other home issues.. sort it out mutually with other members.

6.     I know telling all this is not only solution, but u need to be little careful about her.. I know through which emotion u might be going.. But believe me arrange it correctly and show it off to her.. That u r also very much concern about the delivery.. Take all odd food which she has to eat during her pregnancy with her.. she will feel little comfortable.. and u will definitely have say to say al this.. believe it will not increase u r Appetite.. But it will give her confidence that whatever is happening is natural and normal..

7.     Check for all the things like finance :

a.     During pregnancy: you may need some of the extra product, which u might not be bringing in normal situations.. Like protein powder, may be sugar free, may be some healthy drinks like natural juice every day for her.. from the juice center J , extra medicine which she will not be taking but u have to give her somehow without shouting on her..

b.    Plan it, and then bring it it is easy to do

c.     Post-delivery off course: Dippers is the major product which u will feel is of no use. But yes it is needed for u r baby he/she will sleep nicely, : believe me if u r Partner is getting up for feeding evry 3 hrs in night , then u also get up every third our and changed u r babies dipper ( as recommended) ..

d.    Don’t keep u self out of that night tasks : as only coz u have some meeting on the next day.. : this meeting might have decided week before but her delivery is decided 9 moths before.. so plan accordingly..

e.     Plan for mandatory items like

                                                                  i.    Name of the baby : registration in the city municipal corporation : birth certificate

                                                                 ii.    Passport : if required

                                                               iii.    Any insurance if u want to start for u r baby

                                                                iv.    Anything related him for his future.

                                                                 v.    Vaccination time table for her and for u r baby..

f.      Plan for her

                                                                  i.    Go for every Doc visits: unless u r on travel , she will feel comfortable , listen to u r babies heart-bit personally and not the digitalized one on CD.

                                                                 ii.    Pre deliver dress if required and if she is comfortable.

                                                               iii.    Post-delivery Dresses : plan it and then bring it.

                                                                iv.    Post deliver medicine (s) for her and for babies

                                                                 v.    Check for Massage people after delivery, hot water arrangement for her after delivery.

                                                                vi.    Add what if u wants to add something I this list.

8.     Girls: mother : please see how many efforts they are putting to make us comfortable and just appreciate that ... do not fight for small things.. they will do it.. coz they don’t have baby feeling yet.. But u have to make them feel that yes its their baby..

9.     As I said Sasu Ma and Mother’s should not come at the same time of delivery: it may create cultural difference isshus , so avoid it.. and u know what u are going to need all of them during and post-delivery Manage u r team..

a.     Do not bring too many people together which may create chaos..and tension for u dear.

b.    Do not just put people to take care of u r wife, but u get involved in all the things just chk whether everything is getting deliver correctly or not.. and don’t just rely on the team..be part of delivery.

c.     Don’t let people say : tum chod do hum dekh lenge “ “ you leave we will do it” not ask them how they are doing as for information.. and then let them manage..

“What else I can Say : you are Very good Planner By nature so use that skill and make this as beautiful experience for you as well for her “ , offcourse if u need any help and having any doughts plz call Purnabramha : there are many father who can help u “Puchane me kya jata hai Sir”