Wednesday 14 November 2012

“Teri aakhe bolati hai.”. “ your eyes speaks a lot.. “ “



“Teri aakhe bolati hai.”. “ your eyes speaks a lot.. “ “
U might have heard this sentence many time in u r life.. .. but it has got its own meaning a supportive statement of life time I must say..
Please be vocal.. People will understand u r problem if u speaks.. Don’t keep everything in u r self.. its should come out somewhere.. at least in front of someone.. And if u fell u don’t have any one... then call Purnabramha is there for u call any of the numbers given and believe me u will get shoulder to squeeze u r self..
Simple example: many of u might have used Sponge in the kitchen or in their drawing room.. Correct what u do u soak it in water and then wipe many thing with it.. now imagine u r self as sponge and see once u r full u are of no use and somewhere u have to squeeze that sponge so that it is reusable.. Same is with our life.. now-one here is “Master Shifu”  who will understand what u r imagining.. Speak out at least at one place.. Squeeze u r self in time else u r of no use..
Believe in u r self.. not everyone is in u r inner-circle.. But keep at least one.. That might be Purnabramha..

Friday 9 November 2012



दिवा लावणारेच दिवा झालेत आज..

एके लेकरू दुडूदुडू धावत आला आणि आईला बिलगला.. म्हणाला आई आई मला न लाडू हवा आहे घेवू का, ऐ म्हणाली घे न रे लेकरा तुझ्यासाठीच तर केलेत.. बाळ खुश झाला आणि आईला पुन्हा ईकदा बिलगला महानला मी तुला कधी कधी सोडणार नाही.. ते लाडू मिळत राहावेत म्हणून प्रेमाचे बोल लेकरू बोलून पळून गेल...

वर्ष उलटलीत जग पालटल.. लेकरू आज उडून परदेशी गेल.. आई पुन्हा खुश झाली बाळाला लाडू आवडतात म्हणून लाडू करून दिले .. दिवाळी आली लेकरांनी परदेशीच दिवाळी मानवली..

दिवाळ्या सर्लाय्त, पुन्हा दिवाली आलाय्त.. आता लाडूही बदला आणि दिवाळीही.. आज आजी खाटेवर होती.. म्हाणाली आहो आलाबघा तो धावत लाडो करयचे ठेवले आहेत मी.. आबा महान्लेत.. सुनंदा नको ग वाट बघूस.. निपचित पद बघू... मी दिवा लावून येतो.. आणि लाडू हि घेवून येतो..

आज त्या आजीच दिवा झालेला होता...
त्यंचा काळ काल आला होता महानालेत सुन्द फार उउतम चकल्या करयची बारा.. आगदी गहरी बहाज्नी करून खमंग टाळायची.. दिवाळी तिच्यासाठी कायम उल्हासाची आगदी भर तापत सुधा तिनी कधी मागे पुढे नाही हो पहिला लेकरांसाठी तिचा हाथ कायम चालत राहिला.. पण यंदाची दिवाळी ... आस महणून आबांनीच चकलीचा घन काधायेत टाकला.. आणि माझ्या हातावर plate मध्ये काढून दिला .. महानालेत बघ तरी काह्वून कशे आहेत ते..



" To Is diwali aap kise khus karne wale ho "


 " To  Is diwali aap kise khus karne wale ho "
eke Alag Soch
"bahot yad aate ho tum
har roj dil ki koyee rag ched jato ho tummm
bahot yaad aate ho tum..

tum jo nahi pass ghar me hu wanwas me
tumko bulata hai ghar kahde ke aate ho tumm

dabe paw aake muze , jagati yade teri,
bachpan ki bate sabhi , firse sunato ho tumm

nanhe se eke ful ne mere gahr janam jab liya..
eehasas tab ye howa mere liye kyua ho tum..

kasa gaya bhul main , kudarat ka ye niyam, pohochunga main bhi waha
ho jis jagaha aaj tum.."

"Thanks to Satymev Jayate" and to Amir Sir.
eek aahasas,, jo hum bhul nahi sakate.. eke chtra jo  hum chod nahi skate..
Are we ready for this... or i must we should get ready for this..
I always say .. our father/mother generation is so lucky that they are staying with their parents,, so that whenever their parents need them they are available .. but in out case our parents are not that lucky , coz for them we are not available for 24 hrs.. we are available on calls, web cam, and on bank accounts and may be FB may be Gtalk.. but not there with them.. coz when they need us we are arranging for money , medicine and man power , but we are not going ... we are arranging for them .. u know what they may not need any medicine/money or manpower but WE.. so this Diwali on which face u r bringing the smile .. go and give surprise visit to them .. and bring them back..

Same story goes for parents also..
Please try to give a smile to u r kid. and give co-ordinated  visit to  your sons house(or i must your house)..
Please forget all u r zagada, and all that emotional drams. u know what. "Hold and Hand and Grow together.. "
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Open invitation for all who are unable to go home on this Diwali.. Please join US to celebrate Diwali
and yes bring all possible photographs of u r near and dear one to whom u r missing.. :)

@ S207, Vintage elite Block B
Near Vijaya bank colony
Back side of IIMB
Banergutta road
Bangalore 76
call Purnabramha Team on : 9741399190
on : 13 Nov 2012 : time : after 6 PM
e will celebrate Diwali together.!
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Tuesday 6 November 2012


Pregnant Fathers (The most ignored emotion of the era)..
Hey guys ! Purnabramha is not only for mothers, we give hand to Fathers as well J  is not the message from this discussion.. But today will try to discuss the undisguised topic of Pregnant Fathers.. YES.. pregnant father , this is the topic which they can discuss and will not be able to take it control also.
Fathers: when they get know that they are going to be father, it is absolutely same feeling of as Mothers.. lekin AAi is Mahan in our Culture.. I must say Father is also Mahan..
Girls, I mist say the day they got to know that she is Pregnant they stay with their Plans.. and if not please get into that role from day 1 coz for this Project , u have 9 months delivery time so be prepared for the Post-delivery things.. so that Post-delivery u will not get any pain as such.. not emotional and not even financial.
Fathers, as by nature they are good planner, they might be getting in to tensions of
1.     The health and emotional mood swings of his Partner,
2.     Basic : Papering and environment creation of the world greatest experience.
3.     Need to maintained the office project deliveries and this also.. : No dear this should be the My delivery and project work at office.. so decide on the priority.
4.     Chking of the medicine and arranging for the food is not only responsibility of fathers.. but they should and will and would have been doing this.. as
5.     Please check whether she is taking her food on time, medicine on time, she should not get any extra emotional pain coz of other home issues.. sort it out mutually with other members.
6.     I know telling all this is not only solution, but u need to be little careful about her.. I know through which emotion u might be going.. But believe me arrange it correctly and show it off to her.. That u r also very much concern about the delivery.. Take all odd food which she has to eat during her pregnancy with her.. she will feel little comfortable.. and u will definitely have say to say al this.. believe it will not increase u r Appetite.. But it will give her confidence that whatever is happening is natural and normal..
7.     Check for all the things like finance :
a.     During pregnancy: you may need some of the extra product, which u might not be bringing in normal situations.. Like protein powder, may be sugar free, may be some healthy drinks like natural juice every day for her.. from the juice center J , extra medicine which she will not be taking but u have to give her somehow without shouting on her..
b.    Plan it, and then bring it it is easy to do
c.     Post-delivery off course: Dippers is the major product which u will feel is of no use. But yes it is needed for u r baby he/she will sleep nicely, : believe me if u r Partner is getting up for feeding evry 3 hrs in night , then u also get up every third our and changed u r babies dipper ( as recommended) ..
d.    Don’t keep u self out of that night tasks : as only coz u have some meeting on the next day.. : this meeting might have decided week before but her delivery is decided 9 moths before.. so plan accordingly..
e.     Plan for mandatory items like
                                                                  i.    Name of the baby : registration in the city municipal corporation : birth certificate
                                                                 ii.    Passport : if required
                                                               iii.    Any insurance if u want to start for u r baby
                                                                iv.    Anything related him for his future.
                                                                 v.    Vaccination time table for her and for u r baby..
f.      Plan for her
                                                                  i.    Go for every Doc visits: unless u r on travel , she will feel comfortable , listen to u r babies heart-bit personally and not the digitalized one on CD.
                                                                 ii.    Pre deliver dress if required and if she is comfortable.
                                                               iii.    Post-delivery Dresses : plan it and then bring it.
                                                                iv.    Post deliver medicine (s) for her and for babies
                                                                 v.    Check for Massage people after delivery, hot water arrangement for her after delivery.
                                                                vi.    Add what if u wants to add something I this list.

8.     Girls: mother : please see how many efforts they are putting to make us comfortable and just appreciate that ... do not fight for small things.. they will do it.. coz they don’t have baby feeling yet.. But u have to make them feel that yes its their baby..
9.     As I said Sasu Ma and Mother’s should not come at the same time of delivery: it may create cultural difference isshus , so avoid it.. and u know what u are going to need all of them during and post-delivery Manage u r team..
a.     Do not bring too many people together which may create chaos..and tension for u dear.
b.    Do not just put people to take care of u r wife, but u get involved in all the things just chk whether everything is getting deliver correctly or not.. and don’t just rely on the team..be part of delivery.
c.     Don’t let people say : tum chod do hum dekh lenge “ “ you leave we will do it” not ask them how they are doing as for information.. and then let them manage..

“What else I can Say : you are Very good Planner By nature so use that skill and make this as beautiful experience for you as well for her “ , offcourse if u need any help and having any doughts plz call Purnabramha : there are many father who can help u “Puchane me kya jata hai Sir”


Mothers Experience




 Colic Pain : biggest enemy of a baby : it will come at every odd months or every odd week of th year
For babies (like 1,3,5,7,9 moth : evry odd week like 1, 3,5,7th ) nowDo not get panic,
  1. Please believe me u have to burb( dhekar dene)  u r baby nicely , invest u r time on burbing him nicely after every feed.
  2.  And if still he is getting up in the night and crying then: please don’t rush for the doc at midnight , it is normal that babies will cry like this .. just be normal as u can drink one glass of water,
  3. To all mothers who are breast feeding , or who have kids of age till 9 yrs old.. please take some clean drinking water , put 4/5 table spoon of ajwayan (owam) to it boiled it for say 5/7 min. remove ajwayna (strain it) and then drink this water for 6 months for new mothers , and for all other please drink this water if u have indigestion problem.. it will give u relief. ( for new mothers : it will definitely give relief to u r baby gas will not form in babies stomach) 
  4.  and eat Ajwayen (owam) chew it nicely and then gave the blow of small air from mothers mouth to child mouth.. Believe this works very well..
  5. Or try First give him Colic-aid just 1.5 or 2 ml that’s it , he will sleep in 10 12 min. if still crying then wait for 4 hrs be normal and then rush for Doc.
  6. One more option use u r hand and put some hing on it a pinch and add drp of water : put that thing on his belly button. And just put him in position in which  he is comfortable..  he will sleep in few mins.
  7. Happy Aai with happy kids :)
Regards
Jayanti